tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-57140928211759759492024-03-13T02:18:13.642-04:00gathered heartGathered Heart is an online collection of art, design, vintage findings, crafting and DIY, personal musings, beautiful things and inspiring bits. These are the things I love. This is the place where I share it all. My gathered heart.Katherine Rosshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01179574119249538157noreply@blogger.comBlogger212125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5714092821175975949.post-4743227407530147802015-05-07T12:13:00.001-04:002015-05-07T12:13:06.692-04:00Changes, part II<i>Change is a good thing. It sparks creativity, leads to personal discovery, expands your boundaries, and apparently strengthens your brain. </i><br />
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I guess it goes to show how much I blog these days, especially since my last post on change was nearly two months ago. There’s a HUGE change that I’ve known about for nine months (and then some.) We’re having another baby! Like, real soon. <br />
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A baby boy, technically due four days ago. Goodness.<br />
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I'm not sure how to even begin to write about this little life that we will be meeting the next day or two, or three if he's extra stubborn like his sister (with our luck he totally is.) I'm sitting at my desk at work, completely unable to focus, daydreaming about all the little baby sighs, snuggles, and tiny missing socks that are coming my way. The heart swelling I'll feel as I stare into his eyes for the first time, the way those tiny fingers will clutch at mine. <br />
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Somehow in my hormonal mind I've glossed over the white-knuckled pain of labor, how awful those baby blues can be, what it's like to get poop in your hair (just kidding, I have a toddler. That sometimes still happens.) Fortunately I have a grounded husband who often reminds me of our impending doom, in the best way possible of course. He's not a glosser, and I am genuinely thankful for that. We're a good balance for each other.<br />
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There are so many changes in store for our current family of three, changes that none of us fully comprehend, and it is so exciting and terrifying. We've been talking about the baby for a while with Amelia to help prepare her. She is beyond excited to be a big sister, even though we don't know how much she fully comprehends it all. Chris is convinced she thinks her parents are slightly mental. We've moved her crib into the new nursery, the infant car seat is installed next to hers, tiny stacks of laundry are littered all over the house. But as far as she knows this baby is a figment of our imagination. This baby has also made me into a liar, considering I've been telling Amelia for a week now that her brother will be here any day now. A week is a very long time in toddler land. It's also a very long time in overdue pregnant lady land.<br />
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But for now, this baby gets to call the shots. And so we wait.Katherine Rosshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01179574119249538157noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5714092821175975949.post-83840594012127468542015-03-24T13:18:00.000-04:002015-03-24T13:18:11.467-04:00Changes, part I<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Do you ever reach a season in life where you realize you're <i>too</i> comfortable? You have a daily routine, you wear the same pair of shoes every day,
eat the same old rotation of standby meals. Alarm set for 6:15, standard black flats, Taco Tuesdays. Day in, day out. <br />
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hearing about a study on NPR that suggested taking the same route to work every
day actually dulled the neurons in your brain. By sticking to something repetitive, even as simple as your morning commute, certain parts of your brain become weaker.<br />
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Change is a good thing. It sparks creativity, leads to personal discovery, expands your boundaries, and apparently strengthens your brain.<br />
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Since I haven't been blogging regularly in the past, oh, year or so, I thought I'd slowly ease back into the swing of things with a series of posts about changes. I've had quite a few of them happening in my life lately. <br />
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So. I have a new job! A new-old job, I supposed, as a book designer for the publisher I interned at right out of college. Things have come full circle. It's everything my old job was and more -- benefits, hours, workspace, creativity. I'm surrounded by books all day! Living the dream. If I could take my old coworkers (who I miss greatly) and plant them here, I would be all set. <br />
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Sometimes I miss the comforts of my old job at <a href="http://bethelcollege.edu/">Bethel</a>. I had been there long enough that my work was second nature to me -- I had the Pantone swatches memorized, pulled from a folder of all my favorite images, worked within the brand's font family. My department was overworked but in a way it was easy. I instinctively knew what to do, how to make something look "Bethel." I could generate a branded piece in a day, tops, without it looking last-minute. <br />
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But that's the problem -- I wasn't thinking critically or creatively with a lot of my work. I wasn't being challenged. I was essentially a design robot, inputting images and text and spitting out a design. It was time for a change. <br />
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This new position is so exciting but it is hard, harder than I imagined. It's a Catholic publisher, so all the material I'm working on has a distinctively Catholic twist. I'm familiar with some aspects of Catholicism, but as I'm learning... not nearly as much as I thought. So every new assignment for me takes a ton of verbal and visual research. And now that I'm not working within a set selection of brand fonts and colors, I'm a little overwhelmed with the options I now have. Good problems though, I'm definitely stretching some design muscles that have been dormant since college. <br />
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And that's the thing with change, it's different and uncomfortable and scary. But that's exactly what I want. Research and problem solving, stretching and growth. There are times when I feel like the new kid on the first day of school (especially at office potlucks) but I know this change is a step in the right direction.Katherine Rosshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01179574119249538157noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5714092821175975949.post-48515471631625859532015-02-06T14:36:00.000-05:002015-02-06T14:36:15.124-05:00Overdue<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<i><span style="font-size: x-small;"> A recent <a href="http://instagram.com/katherinejoy/">Instagram</a> that really has nothing to do with this post</span></i></div>
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Another six months of blog silence and I find myself wondering... should I write a new post? Publish one of the countless half-finished posts sitting in my drafts folder? Should I write my final post? Delete the blog entirely? Launch the redesign?<br />
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These questions lead to more thinking. What’s the point of Gathered Heart? It’s something I’ve asked myself on more than one occasion. Why keep up with this little slice of the web where I record and share pieces of my life with dear friends, total strangers, and perhaps some who are a mix of both. Do I to it to stay connected? Is it self-expression? Self-promotion? Why make it public? Why not journal more?<br />
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When blogs started years ago, internet culture was so different. I myself had a xanga (ha!) where I would pour my naive teenage heart out – paragraphs and paragraphs about movie nights with friends, recaps of mission trips, lists of albums that I was listening to, dreams of college life and the future. All my friends had xangas too, and we would comment on each other’s posts: I can’t believe Mr. Whetstone assigned us a seven-page paper, either! I love Hellogoodbye, too! Your new profile pic is so artsy!<br />
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Search optimization didn’t exist. Professional blogging wasn’t a full-time job. Social media (if you can call MySpace social media...) was just a blip on the radar. People weren’t constantly connected to the cloud or notified instantly when something was updated.<br />
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Things are so different now. Our culture is obsessed with internet fame and going viral. Blog posts need beautiful photos that are pin-worthy. Information must be presented in bulleted lists, 140 characters or less. Everything must be mobile-friendly. A successful blog could mean a freelance contract, a book deal, paid sponsorship, your own line of party supplies at Target. You need to find a niche (food! techie stuff! babies! design!) and cater to that market. Create fresh, unique content that readers won’t find anywhere else, and be sure to update daily to keep ‘em coming back for more.<br />
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Well, that definitely isn’t me. I tried to fit that bill for a while and quite frankly I wasted a lot of time. I am proud of a lot of my writing, but I also have to laugh at some of the things I shared (like the sad food styling in my one and only recipe post) and some of the things I spent time on but never posted. Someday I think I’ll share a post of all the silly things I took pictures of because I might blog about them. Those photos need to be cleaned off my hard drive anyway.<br />
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I don’t exactly know what I’m going to do with Gathered Heart. I still love blogging and the blogging community, but my priorities have changed as a person. I’m no longer a fresh college graduate working part time at Game Stop. Pretty soon I won’t even be able to call myself “twenty something.” I’m constantly picking up tiny hair bows and stuffed animals and crumpled socks from my living room floor. I get really excited when I find a new one-pot dinner recipe that actually tastes good. I can’t justify spending a few hours drafting a post when I have a family, a full time job, a life to keep up with (totally not judging those who do, by the way! It’s just not me.) <br />
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All that to say: there’s still something so rewarding about publishing a post that I’m proud of. An illustration I worked on to stretch my creative muscles, a new set of goals I’m inspired to reach (even if I fall flat of those goals almost every time...), musings on motherhood, a recap of an adventure, a list of things I love... because, maybe, just maybe, someone else out there loves them too. Someone else out there is looking for a new adventure, inspiration for a project. I blog for many reasons: to collect and catalog my thoughts, to be inspired and in turn inspire, to polish my writing skills, to connect with likeminded individuals. So I’ll keep gathering all the pieces of my heart here and do my best to make this little slice internet a brighter place.Katherine Rosshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01179574119249538157noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5714092821175975949.post-77999780755608631452014-07-31T15:15:00.002-04:002014-08-12T09:24:01.691-04:00Primetime StreamingI have all these grand visions of life as a multitasking supermom... garden-to-table three course dinners, handmade toys and sweet little hand-stitched sundresses for Amelia, consistently shampooed hair. You know. <br />
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But after the day is done and the baby is in bed, who wants to sit at a sewing machine when you can snuggle on the couch and stream TV shows instead?* Now that Chris and I have the littlest Ross, our days of binge-watching a series during the weekend are over, but we still find time to catch an episode or two in the evenings. Here are our recent favorites on Netflix and Amazon...<br />
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<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Episode-1/dp/B007429AJE"><b>KEY AND PEELE</b></a> This is our go-to show when we're in the mood for something lighthearted. The jokes are hilarious, the characters are ridiculous, the production value is surprisingly high-quality. One of my favorite sketches: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=18t5V3gvfa4">substitute teacher #2</a>.<br />
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<a href="http://www.netflix.com/WiMovie/70241425?trkid=13462986&row=0&rank=25"><b>ADVENTURE TIME</b></a> We usually turn on Finn and Jake's shenanigans when we don't know what else to watch. Then we get sucked in to watching four episodes because everything is just so dang mathematical. I don't even know how to summarize this show in a few sentences, so you should probably read <a href="http://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2014/04/21/castles-in-the-air?currentPage=all">this article</a> from the New Yorker. <br />
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Have you been obsessing over any shows lately? Next up for us will probably be <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Pilot/dp/B006GLLR4A/ref=sr_1_1?s=instant-video&ie=UTF8&qid=1406828865&sr=1-1&keywords=six+feet+under">Six Feet Under</a>, and I've never seen <a href="http://www.netflix.com/WiMovie/70136120?trkid=13462986&row=0&rank=21">The Office</a> in full (I stopped watching when Michael left) so that's on my list as well, but I'd love to hear some other favorites!<br />
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What is it about the turn of every year that seems so promising? My full list of <a href="http://gatheredheart.blogspot.com/2014/01/resolutions-14-for-2014.html">14 resolutions for 2014</a> has been taped to the side of the fridge for the past six months; I see it every day waiting for my morning coffee to brew. I can do this! Lesson learned? Seeing does not mean doing. But I'm not going to focus on that... instead, I'll just pat myself on the back for everything I've stuck to so far for 2014. <br />
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<b>READ 14 BOOKS</b>. Halfway through the year, halfway through my reading list. Feels good. Honestly, I haven't touched any books in about a month, but I flew through the first half of my list (the Harry Potter series, if you're curious) so somehow I'm magically on track for this goal. Yussss.<br />
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<b>MAKE THE MOST OUT OF SUMMERTIME</b>. Summer is kind of a big deal in the Ross household... we take the warm weather very <a href="http://gatheredheart.blogspot.com/search/label/Summertime%20Adventures">seriously</a>. For having a young toddler, I think we've been doing pretty good. Trips to the zoo, walks around the neighborhood every night. We're working on a beach trip soon, too. Plus, I've made it a personal goal to make a batch of popsicles every week this summer, and of course I'm 3/3 with that one. <br />
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<b>MAKE OUR HOUSE A HOME.</b> This is a slow but steady process. We just hit our one year homeaversary and <i>still</i> haven't hung any artwork on the walls but I'm okay with that. Most of our recent efforts have been in the garden - even though we've only completed a small section of our front yard, it was a huge overhaul. I'm proud of what we've been able to accomplish so far, especially since we can only really work when Amelia is asleep. I'm excited to continue to work on our home little by little.<br />
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<b>WASH MY FACE EVERY NIGHT.</b> In high school and college I was obsessed with skincare and kind of fell off the bandwagon after having Amelia. Although I've had my share of weekend skips lately, this is happening on a consistent basis and my skin much happier because of it. <br />
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<b>FOCUS ON BEING A BETTER WIFE AND MAMA.</b> These two. They are my heart. Admittedly, there are days when I am tired, grumpy and selfish and probably not the best wife and/or mama. But mostly I try to be attentive and patient. It's an ongoing goal that I know will never truly reach perfection, but that's okay. I'm just going to keep on loving them. And also feeding them corn on the cob because it's delicious and they're cute. <br />
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As far as my other goals, I have a lot to get cracking on. I haven't written a single letter, my sewing machine has sat in the same spot since we moved in, and all our photos are gathering dust on my hard drive. Six months has flown by quickly, but there's still a decent chunk of time left in the year. There's still hope for those remaining resolutions. Katherine Rosshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01179574119249538157noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5714092821175975949.post-20072820137054507712014-07-03T13:49:00.000-04:002014-08-12T09:27:03.955-04:00The End of WinterIn the Ross household, I think we have finally seen the end of the longest winter yet... metaphorically speaking, of course, since it's the third day of July. JULY.<br />
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Amelia has been sick for a very long time, nearly half a year when I count the days. The long and short of it? Chronic respiratory and digestive issues as well as poor weight gain, causes not entirely known. In the past few months, she has been medicated, x-rayed, tested for parasites and foreign diseases... pretty much everything short of more invasive measures. We have been told her issues were potentially caused by everything from teething to cystic fibrosis (that was a scary 48 hours, but her test processed quickly and came back very negative.) <br />
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There was a while, it seemed, that we lived at the doctor's office,
making several trips a week. When her pediatrician couldn't help us, we were sent to a pediatric gastroenterologist in Kalamazoo. The specialist has
had us avoid soy and dairy (<a href="http://kellymom.com/health/baby-health/food-sensitivity/">common sensitivities</a> for babies) for the past couple of months to see if it
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Little by little, things have gotten better. Her digestive system slowed down enough for her blistering diaper rash to heal, and her respiratory problems aren't as severe either. I wouldn't say she is 100% back to normal, but then what is normal when it comes to babies, anyway? Babies shoot poop up their backs and think rocks are edible.<br />
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Last week, after yet another doctor's visit, we finally got the okay from the specialist to begin
incorporating small amounts of dairy and soy back into her diet. We started this past weekend, mixing about an ounce of cow's milk into her usual almond-coconut blend. We've noticed a slight shift, but overall she's doing really well! Hopefully we are on the right track. Since I'm still nursing her and dairy can stay in a mama's system for a full two weeks, I will be avoiding it for a bit longer to make sure Amelia's system can fully handle dairy (but oh do I dream of the day when I can have cheese pizza for dinner and ice cream for dessert!)<br />
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Originally, I wasn't going to share this part of our life on GH. I'm still not sure this story is mine to tell - something I struggle with as a mom on social media. But the more I've been thinking about it, the more I realize that I turn to the internet a lot when Amelia is sick. Although one quick Google search of an illness can send you down a dark spiraling path of rare diseases, complicated medical sites and scary images, it can also uncover stories of families who are going through the same issues, and hearing about those experiences can be invaluable. So perhaps our story will help you or someone you know. Sometimes I really do hate the internet, but mostly I am reminded of <a href="http://gatheredheart.blogspot.com/2014/04/whatever-is-true.html">the good</a> that it can bring, too. Katherine Rosshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01179574119249538157noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5714092821175975949.post-52940926920701692312014-05-14T14:24:00.000-04:002014-08-12T09:37:32.344-04:00Mother's Day<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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I've had a little experience in <a href="http://www.gatheredheart.blogspot.com/2011/06/happy-summer-solstice.html">vegetable</a> gardening, but I won't pretend to know much about flower gardening. I'm doing my best to turn that around this spring and summer. I've been reading books, blogs, and perusing the Better Homes and Gardens website for lots of tips (their <a href="http://www.bhg.com/gardening/plant-dictionary/">plant encyclopedia</a> has been incredibly helpful.)<br />
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If anything, I know that I want lots of pretty flowers in soft hues and I don't want to work hard for them to thrive. I also don't want to spend a ton of money on landscaping each year, either, and we have a ton of trees, so I'm in the market for perennials that will flower year after year in our shaded yard. Although that limits my options a wee bit, I was surprised to find a lot of beautiful blooms that fit the bill. Here's a selection of what I hope to plant this year..<br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"><a href="http://www.bhg.com/gardening/plant-dictionary/bulb/allium/"><b>ALLIUM</b></a></span> These puffballs stole my heart years ago, during <a href="https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=535670779997&l=a00c902b90">a date to the zoo</a> with Chris. Alliums are in the onion family (think chives, green onion, garlic) so you can enjoy them in the garden and in the kitchen. I hope to plant a wide variety to stagger the bloom time throughout the spring and early summer.<br />
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<b><a href="http://www.bhg.com/gardening/plant-dictionary/perennial/bunchberry/">BUNCHBERRY</a></b> This shade-loving ground cover is my space-saving alternative to a <a href="http://www.bhg.com/gardening/plant-dictionary/tree/dogwood/">dogwood tree</a>. Although the flowers fade after spring, bright red edible berries are left behind and the leaves turn fiery red in the fall.<br />
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<b><a href="http://www.bhg.com/gardening/plant-dictionary/perennial/anemone/">ANEMONE</a></b> I discovered this beauty back when I was wedding planning (just look at the variety of arrangements on <a href="http://www.pinterest.com/search/pins/?q=anemone&rs=ac&len=4">Pinterest</a>!) I love the large loose petals and intricate centers. These flowers grow in dappled light or shade up north, making them perfect for our tree-covered backyard. <br />
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<a href="http://www.bhg.com/gardening/plant-dictionary/perennial/delphinium/"><b>DELPHINIUM</b></a> The giant stalks of delphinium will bloom in the both spring and again in fall if trimmed. Perfect for adding a little vertical interest. <br />
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<b><a href="http://www.bhg.com/gardening/plant-dictionary/perennial/violet/">VIOLETS</a></b> I'm partial to wild violets that are scattered throughout the yard, but this larger variety is lovely and offers cheerful blooms all season long. <br />
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<b><a href="http://www.bhg.com/gardening/flowers/perennials/easy-ground-covers/#page=31">CREEPING BUTTERCUP</a></b> Unlike many other varieties of ranunculus, creeping buttercup grows in full shade. That yellow is the perfect pop of color for a shaded area.<br />
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<a href="http://www.bhg.com/gardening/plant-dictionary/perennial/peony/?name=Peony&zipZone="><b>PEONY</b></a> Okay, okay... peonies don't exactly grow in the shade. But I have to have one. I don't need to wax poetic about their beauty. You guys know. You know. I will find the sunniest spot in my yard and make it home to a peony plant. <br />
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<a href="http://www.bhg.com/gardening/plant-dictionary/perennial/forget-me-not/?name=Forget-me-not&zipZone="><b>FORGET-ME-NOT</b></a> There was a whole mess of forget-me-nots planted around the water of our <a href="http://www.gatheredheart.blogspot.com/2012/08/late-summer-sunsets.html">first home</a>, and because of that, I plan to plant them at every home Christopher and I share. Nostalgia!<br />
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<a href="http://www.bhg.com/gardening/plant-dictionary/vine/clematis/"><b>CLEMATIS</b></a> Like many other flowers, clematis will always remind me of
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Henry's clematis variety blooms all summer long. <br />
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<b><a href="http://www.bhg.com/gardening/plant-dictionary/perennial/perennial-geranium/">GERANIUM</a></b> Geraniums are a childhood favorite of mine, but sadly are not annual flowers up north. Enter the perennial geranium: a hardier variety that flowers for months in warmer weather. It thrives in full sun, but can handle part shade as well.<br />
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<a href="http://www.bhg.com/gardening/plant-dictionary/perennial/bellflower/"><b>BELLFLOWER</b></a> These lovely star shaped flowers are a new favorite. They bloom from spring well into summer. Yes please. <br />
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<b><a href="http://www.bhg.com/gardening/plant-dictionary/shrub/hydrangea/">HYDRANGEA</a></b> Yet another childhood favorite... how could you not love the fun puffball flowers of the hydrangea? These shade-loving plants bloom from summer to fall.<br />
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We're probably a few weeks away from the last frost (it always sneaks in one final chill in May up here) but I'm ready to start incorporating my floral picks into a few layout sketches and start tilling and amending the soil.<br />
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Nature in general was always a big part of my childhood... I'm very excited to share the beauty of plants with Amelia and teach her how important the earth is. She just turned eleven months this week and is becoming much more aware of her surroundings. I have a feeling she's going to love the allium and delphinium. Can't wait!Katherine Rosshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01179574119249538157noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5714092821175975949.post-77907195957336165352014-04-17T10:06:00.000-04:002014-08-12T09:38:40.090-04:00Whatever is True<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Lately I’ve been thinking about why I have a blog. It happens every <a href="http://gatheredheart.blogspot.com/2012/06/why-i-blog.html">now and then</a>.<br />
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I’ve been thinking about all the bits and pieces that fill my heart, the things I want to gather up and share with you here. I’ve been thinking about first birthdays and sunshine, fragrant herb gardens and fresh strawberries. Dimpled little hands, floral print dresses, swing sets, long walks through the neighborhood with a squish who tries to catch the wind. How wonderful it is to share my life with those I love. I’ve been dreaming of afternoons spent on the shores of Lake Michigan, the satisfying feeling of making something with my own hands, the way warm asphalt smells after the rain.<br />
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As I have written before, I want to focus on whatever is true, noble, right, pure, lovely, and admirable – things that are excellent and praiseworthy. <br />
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Easier said than done, my friends. As blessed as I am, I find myself dwelling on the negative lately. The way motherhood has changed my body, the bags under my eyes after yet another sleepless night. The worrisome thought that my sweet little girl is sick more often than she is healthy. House expenses, college debit, a winter that will not end. The judgement that I pass on myself and on others when I am feeling inadequate as a wife, mother, designer, human being. It all hangs heavy on my heart and sometimes I just can’t shake it. <br />
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So, I’m going to revamp my small slice of the internet and really focus on the things that are true, pure, and lovely. I want to share more of my experiences about the things that make life worth living, to catalogue the pieces of my heart instead of letting my thoughts dwell on the negative. I want to keep things real and honest, and stay grounded. But most of all, I want to live in the present and keep my focus on what is true.Katherine Rosshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01179574119249538157noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5714092821175975949.post-61523859549926066722014-04-05T11:57:00.000-04:002014-08-12T09:41:07.251-04:008/52, 9/52, 10/52, 11/52, 12/52, 13/52Time for some baby overload... I'm catching up (yet again) on my 52 project photos.<br />
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<i>Amelia: Your newest obsession? Pulling every single shoe I own out of the closet. If I don't remember to shut the doors in the morning after getting dressed, I will inevitably find you here with a pile of flats at your feet. You're so fast at pulling them off the rack, too; five minutes is all you need. Stinker.</i><br />
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<i>Amelia: I can barely look at this photo without tearing up. You have been sick all week with a 103 temperature and a terrible cough. The doctors still don't know what exactly is wrong. Too sick to play with even your favorite toys, you drifted off to sleep a few minutes after I took this photo.</i><br />
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<i>Amelia: Why hello there! You are finally back to your normal energetic self after nearly two weeks of sickness: RSV, viral pnuemonia, and a 48 hour stomach bug (that I also caught.) You have been through so much, little squish, and daddy and I are so glad that you are feeling better!</i><br />
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<i>Amelia: This particular nap went past the two hour mark, which is unheard of in this house. I'm sure you have lots of resting to catch up on after being so sick for so long. I myself have lots of staring at those squishy cheeks and mile-long eyelashes to catch up on, so this arrangement totally works.</i><br />
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<i>Amelia: I think you may be going through a growth spurt. Today we had dinner a little later than normal (chicken and cheese, your two favorites) and you just couldn't keep your eyes open. It was one of the cutest things ever - we even caught it on <a href="http://instagram.com/p/mBp2QioMf8">video</a>, which will of course be played at your high school graduation open house. </i>Katherine Rosshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01179574119249538157noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5714092821175975949.post-27524602829482095192014-02-27T21:28:00.000-05:002014-08-12T10:34:54.273-04:007/52<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<i>Amelia: When did you grow up so much? Quit it! You are becoming more toddler-like by the minute and I can hardly stand it. We sat watching the Olympics (men's cross country ski relay, I believe) and you were quite content to sit and munch on Cheerios and banana puffs, if only for ten minutes. It was a sweet moment that I'll cherish forever. </i>Katherine Rosshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01179574119249538157noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5714092821175975949.post-57119219063893970072014-02-26T11:57:00.000-05:002014-08-12T10:35:41.013-04:00Spring Green Houseplants Let's face it. Spring is nowhere near the midwest and I think it's going to stay that way until June, probably. Last week we had some warmer days (48 degrees!) and sunshine... my spirits were lifted and all was right in the world. Today? Snow. Tomorrow? Snow. Fat fluffy flakes and a single-digit forecast to follow. I need some sort of boost, and I've got spring green plants on the brain.<br />
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<b>4.</b> I have been wanting a <a href="http://www.ikea.com/us/en/catalog/products/30239892/">fiddle leaf fig</a> for ages but didn't know what they were called until I read <a href="http://stylebyemilyhenderson.com/blog/my-2-favorite-indoor-plants/">this post</a> by Emily Henderson. Oh man those trees are beautiful. According to Emily, a sizable tree can cost upward of $500, but this ten inch guy is only $12.99 at IKEA. I'll take it. <br />
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I'd also love to own a potted citrus tree someday, but considering that I can't keep a simple garden herb alive indoors, I'm going to stick to hard-to-kill vegetation for now. You can most of the above plants online, but I bet you could find most of these plants at your local nursery, too. I've even seen the sansiveria at my grocery store. Slap any of these guys in a white ceramic pot (or perhaps copper?) and you have instant Spring -- just what I need.Katherine Rosshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01179574119249538157noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5714092821175975949.post-35012364302109459012014-02-18T14:58:00.000-05:002014-08-12T10:36:59.687-04:004/52, 5/52, 6/52I'm playing a little catchup on my posts for <a href="http://www.practisingsimplicity.com/2014/01/the-52-project-2014.html">the 52 Project</a>. Surprisingly, I haven't fallen behind in taking these photos, just sharing them. I know I'm hardly two months into the project, but I am loving these weekly portraits of my daughter. Best resolution ever. <br />
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<i><b>Creativity.</b></i> Maybe it's the lack of sleep that comes with a baby,
but I have never felt so uninspired. My design work feels stale, we have
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admit, even after eight months, I'm still struggling to find a way to
fit into my new role as a mom. It's not that I struggle with motherhood
itself (man do I love it, ups and downs alike!) but sometimes I do feel
like I've lost a part of the "old Katherine." Maybe I just need to
change my mindset; I haven't really lost myself but instead added a new
part of myself to the mix. I realize that a shift in priorities is
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<i>Amelia: You have learned a new trick: pulling yourself to stand, and you are so proud of yourself. Now you can walk along the couch, reach the magnets on the fridge, and, much to my delight, greet me after a nap. </i>Katherine Rosshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01179574119249538157noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5714092821175975949.post-56669454035609963792014-01-22T21:29:00.000-05:002014-08-12T10:42:54.282-04:002/52<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<i>Amelia: Daddy was working in the kitchen and you were playing in the living room as I kept my eye on you through the office doorway. In a moment of cuteness (something that happens a lot around here) you reached into one of your toy bins and decided to stay put. I love you. </i>Katherine Rosshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01179574119249538157noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5714092821175975949.post-75809664628877414582014-01-13T16:15:00.000-05:002014-08-12T10:43:22.085-04:001/52<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<i>Amelia: I caught you studying the textures and patterns of our wedding quilt with your sweet little dimpled fingers. My curious little seven-month-old. </i><br />
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You may remember me <a href="http://gatheredheart.blogspot.com/2011/08/2011-goals-update.html">sharing</a> that I'm not a huge fan of "resolutions" because such broad, open-ended goals seem like set-ups for failure. Instead I have found that a few specific "to-do" type resolutions are much more achievable, and who doesn't love a good list? I decided to come up with 14 goals to focus on for 2014: <br />
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Even with such a promising list of goals, one of my problems is that I tend to forget about them as
the year draws on. This year, I decided to add a touch of
design to my resolutions. Now I have them printed out, hanging right
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You may notice some repeats from the goals of years past... I am bound and determined to write more letters! Friends, help keep me accountable on this one (and send me your address, please.) In general, I really hope to <i>create</i> more this year. With a new baby, sometimes it seems that I barely have a chance to shower... but I am not going to let me down. 2014 will be a great year! Katherine Rosshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01179574119249538157noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5714092821175975949.post-2287936974250286732013-12-31T16:51:00.000-05:002014-01-03T17:22:33.219-05:00Year's End<i><span style="font-size: x-small;">I began writing this post on New Year's Eve, fully intending to have it finished before 2014. But then my baby woke up early from her nap with a 102 degree fever. The post has sat open on my computer, half-finished until now, so I've adjusted the time stamp and I'd still like to share it as a farewell to 2013. </span></i><br />
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Even though I haven't blogged in over a quarter of a year (something that started out accidentally and eventually became intentional) I thought I would write one last post to commemorate 2013. What a year.<br />
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Honestly, I have typed, deleted, and re-typed this post countless times. My words continue to fall flat. How to I begin to express all that this year has held? I gave birth to a beautiful baby girl. We bought our first home. Our hearts have filled with the joy of new life, the stress and excitement of new beginnings, the pain and grief of loss. I'm honestly a little overwhelmed thinking about it all. Even still, I feel like these words do 2013 no justice. I may not be able to express all that 2013 held, but the memories I made this year will live forever in my heart. It was not an easy year, but it sure was a good one. <br />
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And now, I turn my thoughts towards the new year and all the promise that it holds. Unlike <a href="http://www.gatheredheart.blogspot.com/2013/01/resolve.html">last year</a>, I've come up with a few resolutions (starting to blog again happens to be one of them!) for 2014, which I'll share a little later. I'm welcoming the proverbial new beginnings that January 1 brings. A chance for self-improvement, for reinvention, for growth. Katherine Rosshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01179574119249538157noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5714092821175975949.post-10376581573416130522013-06-05T19:24:00.000-04:002014-08-12T10:58:17.729-04:00Amelia Joy Ross<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Our baby girl arrived on May 22 at 7:13 in the evening. 7 pounds, 0.5 ounces. 20.25 inches long. Her name is Amelia Joy and she is completely perfect.<br />
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She has a head full of thick brown hair, the cutest button nose, and deep blue eyes that are just beginning to focus on her world. Christopher and I are completely smitten with her curled little toes, her squeals and sighs, her chubby thighs... everything. <br />
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It's pretty incredible to think that today she turns two weeks old. Goodness. She's already changed so much! We're growing to know each other more and more every day, and it is one of the most rewarding things (albeit challenging) I've ever been a part of. Even now as she sleeps on my chest, my heart has grown larger than I thought possible. <br />
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Posting on GH may be a little sporadic as I get used to motherhood (specifically, the lack of sleep) but I'll do my best to share little updates as I can in between baby snuggles.Katherine Rosshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01179574119249538157noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5714092821175975949.post-11939930028270263322013-05-13T11:38:00.000-04:002013-05-13T11:38:58.703-04:00Arrested Development: Season 4<iframe allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="298" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/vzVhPCMAxWQ" width="530"></iframe>
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ARRESTED DEVELOPMENT RETURNS IN TWO WEEEEEKS!!!!!Katherine Rosshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01179574119249538157noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5714092821175975949.post-9431678090956010882013-05-06T12:41:00.000-04:002014-08-12T10:58:45.118-04:00Ten Days<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Ten more days until baby girl is due to arrive. Ten. more. days.<br />
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It just doesn't seem possible that in less than two weeks, Christopher and I will be parents. I just can't even. I've washed teeny tiny onesies and the smallest socks in the world. Christopher has assembled the bassinet (and disassembled it to discourage kitty naps for the time being.) The carseat base has been installed in the back of our car, ready to go. Diapers, baby shampoo, blankets galore: check, check, check. We've essentially been preparing for this for the past nine months, but I still don't feel ready. The only thing I haven't done yet is pack the hospital bag... I'm half afraid that if I cross that last thing off my list, baby girl will know and I'll go into labor immediately.<br />
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Even though I've had it pretty easy with my pregnancy overall, I'm definitely feeling <strike>huge</strike> pregnant these days. Swollen feet, achey hips, a distinct waddle. Pregnancy is not a glamorous thing, don't let anyone fool you. Also, the dream hair and glowy skin they always tell you about? It's a lie, too, at least for this mama. Baby girl has stolen my beauty like the old wives' tale said she would... but it's totally worth it.<br />
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Before I was pregnant, our kitty <a href="http://gatheredheart.blogspot.com/search/label/Ulia">Ulia</a> was my snuggle buddy. Most nights, she would curl up next to me in bed and purr herself to sleep. Cutest thing ever. Once I found out I was pregnant, though, I distanced myself from her quite a bit out of fear of contracting <a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_toxoplasmosis-during-pregnancy_1461.bc?page=1">toxoplasmosis</a>, a parasitic infection occasionally found in kitty litter that can cause severe birth defects. Scary stuff, right?<br />
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My doctor said the chances of contracting the disease from Ulia are low, especially since she's a house cat, but that hasn't stopped me from being extremely <strike>paranoid</strike> cautious about it. That has meant no more kitty snuggles, kisses, or squishes. So sad!<br />
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<li>When I spotted this <a href="http://www.westelm.com/products/mrk-market-tote-bag-totes-ma-goats-d1098/?pkey=ctotes&cm_src=totes%7C%7CNoFacet-_-NoFacet-_--_-">Totes Ma Goats</a> tote from West Elm this week, I died. I love that phrase (thanks to my favorite movie, <a href="http://www.iloveyouman.com/">I Love You Man</a>) and I love those goats.</li>
<li>Please tell me I'm not the last person to know about <a href="http://www.samhaseyebrows.com/">Sam</a>, the cat with eyebrows. Chris thinks he's creepy but those concerned, raised brows crack me up. I just started following him on <a href="http://instagram.com/samhaseyebrows">Instagram</a> and I laugh at pretty much every photo. </li>
<li>These sculptural <a href="http://www.etsy.com/listing/112391127/ivory-floral-paper-art-cluster-in-deep?ref=shop_home_active">paper flowers</a> from Etsy shop Frances & Francis are incredibly beautiful. I can't imagine all the time put into cutting and arranging something so delicate! Check out their entire flower selection <a href="http://www.etsy.com/shop/FrancesandFrancis?ref=seller_info">here</a>, including an <a href="http://www.etsy.com/listing/129364282/a-single-everlasting-flower-for-mothers?ref=shop_home_active">everlasting flower</a> for Mother's Day. Lovely.</li>
<li>Summertime baby clothes are officially the cutest things ever. Case and point: Baby Gap's <a href="http://www.gap.com/browse/product.do?cid=54678&vid=1&pid=573719002">bow bubble onesie</a> in the sweetest floral print. Actually, pretty much <a href="http://www.gap.com/browse/category.do?cid=14249#department=165">everything</a> from Baby Gap.</li>
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The weekend weather promises highs in the upper 60s, which isn't much but I'll take it after this week's snowy, 40-degree days. Chris and I will be partying it up, with a going away celebration for friends and a birthday party for our <a href="http://gatheredheart.blogspot.com/2011/04/baby-girl-stanton.html">niece</a> (that little stinker is already two!) I hope it's nice wherever you are... Happy weekend! </div>
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Only four more weeks until my due date. One month. Technically, I've been drafting this post for a while and today is the very last day of my 36 week stretch, so we really only have <i>three</i> more weeks before baby girl comes (give or take a few days, of course.) EEEP!<br />
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Looking back over the past nine months, I realize that I haven't written all that much about my pregnancy here on Gathered Heart... in fact, the <a href="http://gatheredheart.blogspot.com/2013/01/oh-baby.html">last bump photo</a> I shared was three months ago! That's completely unintentional. Between trips to the hospital for appointments and birthing classes, weeknights and Saturdays spent house hunting, and the general fatigue that comes with creating a little life, it seems that all my creative energy has been zapped. My free time is spent on the couch, watching <a href="http://www.fox.com/new-girl/">New Girl</a> and eating <a href="http://www.benjerry.com/flavors/our-flavors/#product_id=624">Half Baked</a> with Christopher, and that's the way I like it.<br />
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Sometimes, especially after a quick visit to Pinterest or Facebook, I feel guilty for not doing more (you know, between the morning sickness, backaches, acne, swollen feet and all the other joys of pregnancy.) Then I realize, baby girl isn't going to care whether or not I have taken weekly bump photos, or that her nursery is still in the planning phase. Really, when she gets here, all she's going to care about is sleeping, eating, and having a dry bum.<br />
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And then, after a little while, she's going to care about the bedtime story we read together at night. The way her daddy tosses her high in the air and catches her without fail. She's going to care about big pushes on the swing set, bug hunts, tea parties, trips to the zoo. That's the stuff I can't wait to document, the things I look forward to most. Being a family.<br />
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Three more weeks, baby girl! Get here safely!Katherine Rosshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01179574119249538157noreply@blogger.com6